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City College,
I am a 25 year old female physician assistant living in small town.
I have two problems that have been bothering me for some time now.
First, I have never had a real relationship. I have never even been
kissed. I cannot fathom what could be so wrong with me that no one
has ever been interested. I know that I'm not gorgeous, but I'm not
ugly either. I have a great job and a ton of friends. I always
thought that maybe it was because I don't let my emotions show very
much. However, I recently let a good male friend of mine know that I
wanted to be more than friends. He basically just pretended that I
never brought it up. I get it if he's not interested, but the point
is, I do occasionally put myself out there, and I have never gotten a
good result. This leads me to my next problem.
As a physician assistant in a small town, I double as a
therapist/counselor since psychological help is hard to come by in a
rural area. The problem is, that I am expected to provide counseling
and insight for my patients about their relationships and sex life.
As you can guess, that is very difficult to do without any life
experience myself. I know that there is no real easy solution to
either of these problems. I just felt the need to express myself to
someone, and I couldn't face telling anyone I actually know. I'm not
sure telling a stranger is going to help either, but I'm so
discontented about this I just don't know what to do anymore.
Thanks,
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