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Dear DS,
It will definitely be a challenge for me to live in a sexless relationship for the rest of my life. That's why I want to work it out now, because I really do love my partner. As far as the guilt thing, you are not the first person to hint that my partner is controlling.
As far as meeting each other's sexual needs, my partner doesn't have any. She hasn't had her sex drive for quite some time. She does offer to please me sexually, but as far as affection like kissing, etc. she doesn't want to do that since she doesn't have a sex drive. She was also raped when she was in high school, and I wonder if that plays a part in it too. She never reported it or went to counseling for it. It's just that the lack of any physical affection makes me really crave it. And, I can't seem to shake the feelings I have for my co-worker. I really don't want to cheat, but I really miss the affection! I think too I've experienced a lot of rejection in my life. My mother and I have always had problems. I was raised by my grandparent's. My grandpa just died in October '08. And, my grandma left me out of the funeral plans, out of the will, etc. And I wasn't being greedy, but it just really hurt me to be left out since my grandpa raised me. So, I think I have just really been craving the affection of a woman. And, my co-worker that I can't get over is 45 years old (almost the same age as my mother). I'm 28.
And, of course to if this is truly a health problem, I want to stand by my partner. And, MD could definitely cause problems!