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I am C, 33 years old, married and with a 9 months old baby boy. I work as doctor. I think since about 9 or 10 years ago I started watching nude female photos online, and after downloading porno movies. I have 2 fetish: feet fetish and another way more stranger, which is to pretend my wife is unconscious. Those porno movies i said before are about these 2 fetish. I had troubles with my wife because of that, and I removed all movies and photos long time ago. but always it use to come again: being hidden i downloaded again these kind of movies using these free online programs. and again fighting's came back. the last movie I have downloaded and erased was i think in august last year, but yesterday happened again: we were looking for some specific program to make fonts for Word, but as we saw they were all for payment, she asked me "why not to try and download something for free", so I went alone to the other pc we have, and as soon as I opened this program I remembered "this was the program I used to use for those porno movies downloading", and I didn't even realized I already wrote on searching the name of a specific porno movie again, honestly i didn't click on search yet, and i think i wouldn't do it, even when I think I wrote it just to see if it was still there, but suddenly my wife appeared in the room and i had not even time to turn it off or erase it, she discovered what I wrote and all started again. she told me she regrets of married me, regrets even of met me, and that the only that keeps her here is our son. i feel terrible, completely destroyed thinking of the future as a father for my son, as a husband for her. I really don't want to come to this past again, i am not a teenager anymore, but i really don't know what to do. several times I tried to stop myself when i had wishes to download something, and until yesterday it seemed to work, but honestly even when i didn't download them I will not lie I had wishes and sometimes desperation in having those movies again. but I don't want this anymore. this seems stupid once i read it but honestly for me is a hell. I don't want to lose the woman I love nor my baby for a stupid thing like this. its the first time I accept I need help as what I did seems not to heal me. please if you have some advice or tips to do I will really appreciate it
regards